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While my soldier serves.
That doesn’t apply to me. But wait, actually it does.
Neither my husband nor children serve in the military, but my soldier does.
Your soldier is my soldier.
I owe my freedom to every American soldier who’s served so that I can live free.
Every soldier is our soldier.
We should pray for them as if they were our very own son, daughter, husband or wife.
I can’t begin to match the tremendous sacrifice our soldiers have made, but I do have three gifts to offer: Encouragement, a Giveaway, & Monday Music.
Edie prayed, battled fear, and clung to God while her son served.
God met her in those hard times and brought her a harvest of joy.
I asked Edie to share some Memorial Day Encouragement and introduce her book, While My Soldier Serves: Prayers for Those With Loved Ones in the Military.
Sowing Faith in the Hard Times Brings a Harvest of Joy
by Edie Melson
There are times when life is lived in the dark. The days are long and hard, and the rewards nonexistent. Everywhere we turn—inside and out—the landscape is bleak and barren. It’s times like these that only faith will get us through. There’s no proof we’re on the right path, no confirmation that God is at work. Often, even God Himself seems distant and unreachable.
I’ve been through those times—and come out on the other side. My time of darkness came when our oldest son was deployed to Iraq as a frontline infantry Marine. We don’t come from a military family, so everything about his choice to enlist was an opportunity for growth. Every step in his journey was a time of stretching for our family. Oh, don’t make the mistake of thinking we were disappointed in his choice. We were button-busting proud of our son’s willingness to serve.
But as his mother, I didn’t want to face the prospect of my son going off to war.
I’d always assumed I’d have a grace period between childhood and adulthood, a time of transition. College would have fit the bill, instead, he graduated high school and immediately entered the Marines.
Marine Corps boot camp doesn’t provide that grace period. One minute I was hugging goodbye to my child, my oldest son. The next time I saw him, he was a fully formed man—still a son, but without any trace of the child I’d said goodbye to.
And before that year was out, he’d be half a world away, fighting an enemy whose main focus was on killing him. It was during those deployments that I learned about darkness of the heart. I wanted to protect him. I ached to shield him from what I knew he was experiencing, but I could not. So I did the one thing I could do. It became my course of last resort because I was at the end of my own strength.
And I prayed.
And I prayed some more.
I learned to take my overwhelming fear to the only One who could protect him. And I left my son in God’s hands. The prayers weren’t pretty. Often times they weren’t even words. They truly were the groanings we read about it Romans 8:26-27.
I didn’t realize it at the time, but I was like a seed, planted deep in the ground. I was surrounded by darkness, by rough, rocky soil, pressing in on all sides crushing the life from me. But through that incredible pressure, the shell of my own strength fell away, and I slowly began to push toward the light that I knew was just beyond the darkness
Then my course of last resort became my strength, and the first place I turned. Instead of praying in desperation, I began to pray in confidence. I learned to lean into God, instead of turning in on myself.
The final harvest of that time of darkness came to fruition just after Mother’s Day. It’s a book of prayers for those with loved ones in the military, While My Soldier Serves. How I longed for just such a book during my dark time. Now God has taken my time of darkness and is shining it as a light for those who are also facing the incredible stress of having a loved one at war.
Never doubt that God will bring a harvest of joy, no matter how dark the days you’re facing now. Lean into him. Cry out to him. And know that the light is coming.
Edie’s powerful new book While My Soldier Serves: Prayers for Those with Loved Ones in the Military is out, and you’re going to want to buy it (click link above to purchase a copy or two).
While My Soldier Serves:
Prayers for Those with Loved Ones in the Military
By Edie Melson
Thousands of families send loved ones off to fight on a daily basis. These families spend a lot of time living in a world out of control. This kind of stress can take an incredible toll, but there is hope. When we feel helpless, we can take our fears to the One who loves us more than anything and holds the universe in His hands.
In this book you’ll find the words to usher you into His presence. These prayers are a place to visit again and again as you take your own fears to God. They’re just a starting point, written to help you find your own voice as you call out on behalf of the one you love.
While our soldiers serve, we’ll appreciate the numerous detailed prayers for our soldiers in Edie’s book — prayers for wisdom, strength, faith, protection, peace, and for those close to our soldiers.
You’ll love that Edie not only includes powerful prayers for our soldiers, but also for ourselves — prayers for fighting fear and anger and gaining peace, patience, faith, and strength, and for reaching out to others.
Edie told me that after her son left to serve, she realized how desperately she needed prayers to help herself. God helped her pray prayers that battled her thoughts and fears which gave her the strength to pray with confidence for her son.
I want us to pray for your soldiers, so enter the name of any soldier you’d like us to pray for. If you don’t personally know a soldier serving, just enter “any soldier,” and we’ll pray for our soldiers as a whole. I’ll post the first names of the soldiers when I announce the winner so we can all be praying for our soldiers.
“Letters From War” by Mark Schultz
Before you click the play button, grab the tissues. Even you men.
This is a beautiful story of a mother and son who write letters to each other while he’s off at war.
I won’t spoil the video by telling you anymore other than to say this powerful song will pull at your heartstrings and make you appreciate the tremendous sacrifice our soldiers make.
As the mother of a frontline infantry Marine, Edie Melson lived her book before she wrote it. Edie understands what it is to face adversity and come out triumphant on the other side. Her years as a wife, mother, and ministry leader have given her a unique perspective to reach out to others facing the same struggles.
She’s the Military Family Blogger for Guideposts.org, social media director for several writing websites, and a popular ministry and conference speaker.